I’m currently having a huge argument with the few people im out to. Is polyamory a choice or sexuality? They all say its a choice as you can choose to be mono (?), however for me I couldn’t happy long term with one person, so its a sexuality?
Are you born poly? Or is it a relationship choice?
I get this question often, and it sort of breaks my heart that this is a point of contention in the community. We have to have each other’s backs, friends. Is this the hill any of us want to die on?