Hi. How do I know whether or not I’m poly or open for poly relationships? I like this girl and I hate that I’d have 2 share her but if it’s the only way to be with her I might do it even if it would break me but idk if I should, I do support poly btw

Do not date someone under terms that would “break you” or that you would “hate.” This will lead to an unhealthy situation for everyone. Sometimes you like someone but there is something preventing it from working out - this seems like one of those times.

It is fine not to be okay with polyamory for yourself, even though you support it for others! You can support marijuana legalization without smoking it yourself; you can support LGBT rights without being LGBT.