Is there a way to ask non published questions? If so, how would you prefer that to be specified?


hey is it cool to message you?

I got both of these asks in the last few days, and unfortunately, the answer is no. I can’t give private advice or chat live with people. Any questions sent via tumblr’s chat option have the potential to be published and answered anonymously.

I discussed this here, and I also mention this in my FAQ. Even after I posted the FAQ, I still get a lot of questions that could be answered there, so before you send me a message, be sure to check the FAQ! It’s not there because I don’t like getting questions (I run an advice blog, after all) - it’s there to help you, so if your question has already been answered, you can get the resources you need without waiting for me to answer and post your question!