So um, I’ve started thinking that I might be poly but I’m not totally sure. Are there telltale signs or something? I’m sorry if I’m being rude I’m just kind of confused.
Short answer - there are no “telltale signs,” just a journey of self discovery and introspection. Do you think you would be happy, healthy, and fulfilled in a polyamorous relationship? Then you’re probably poly. It is okay to be unsure or experimenting for as long as it takes.